No Complaining

This last week I read the motivational book "The No Complaining Rule" by Jon Gordon. It's an easy and quick read but Jon has some good observations and ideas. At this time when the attitude is so negative Gordon's ideas are worth sharing.

There are three key tools for combating a negative attitude toward life.

1. When you realize you are complaining, add the word "but" and then add a positive thought or positive action. (e.g. It is snowing again BUT I am glad I have a warm home to live in)
2. Focus on what you "get to do" instead of what you "have to do". The key is to focus on being blessed rather than on being stressed.
3. Turn complaints into solutions. Resolve you will not complain about something unless you can also present a couple of positive solutions. At the same time decide to dismiss the complaining of others unless there are suggested solutions.

As we listen to reports on the economy, government corruption or the slide to paganism, our challenge is to keep focusing on the positive.

This should be much easier for the believer because we know who holds the future. We know God is good. We know He has promised to take care of His children. If we focus on these truths we will be among those who restore those around us rather than dragging them down further.

I'm going to work on this. I hope you will too.